This one isn't quite as easy as yesterday's dilemma.
As regular readers know, I have been stitching Cinderella on and off for almost 2 years. I was asked by my mum, who was asked by her sister (my aunt obviously!) to stitch it for her daughter (my cousin!). They sent me the money for the fabric, kreinik and beads and provided the magazine with the chart. I said I would pay for the DMC as I had a lot of what was needed.
Yesterday I messaged my cousin on facebook (I have only met her twice in my life so this is the only contact we have been having), told her I was nearing the end of the cross stitching and could she start looking around for suitable alphabets to personalise the design as it will be a birth sampler for her daughter. She told me to find one to which I explained that I don't know her taste and didn't want to choose the wrong thing. She then went on google images and chose pretty much the first one she saw, which is a pretty one but is SO wrong for Cinderella. It's
this...which is one I bought at Christmas to do my ORTS ornie. She wants her daughter's full name which is 18 letters in total with 2 spaces. Each of those letters is around an inch wide so I explained that it would be too big (not stitching over one for her which would actually still be over 9") and that she needed to find something smaller. I suggested a pretty alphabet but told her we would have to pay for it - I'm no copyright pirate! It costs a whole £2.52! This is it
here.
She has then told me to finish the 'picture' and send it to her "She'll sort it out." That was after telling me that she has a frame that she '...thinks will do.' Anyone see why I am feeling a bit cross yet?
So my dilemma is do I...
- Finish the 'picture' and send it back.
- Finish it, stitch the alphabet she wants, hate it and send it back.
- Send it back as it is now - after all if she can finish the birth details, she can finish the 'picture'.
- Send my aunt the money back and keep Cinders for myself.
- Put Cinders away for a month and see how I feel about it once I am calmer and not so annoyed.
- Just keep it anyway, after all, how many hours have I stitched on it?
Number 6 is out because to me that just feels immoral. At the end of the day no matter how ********** (submit any word that means irritated or annoyed for the asterisks) I am, they have still paid for the materials mostly and it feels like theft.
So assuming anyone has got this far, and well done if you have, what would you do??? If you have any other options that I haven't considered please let me know. If you would prefer to email me rather than leave a message my email is sharon j stevens at msn dot com. Obviously that is without the spaces and with the appropriate symbols inserted.
Currently Cinders is on my WIP shelf as I haven't got the heart to work on her at the moment which is a shame as I got a lot done today!