Well sadly there was no happy ending for Cinderella this time!
I received a phone call from my mum the following morning (must be serious if she is ringing me during the day!), asking what was going on. I read the facebook messages I had received up to that point, which my mum wasn't impressed with! She had been phoned by my aunt the previous evening to discuss what had been said. The day after all this I received several abusive messages on facebook from my cousin which were an attack on me, my character, my stitching and my life in general. It was so bad that I ended up blocking her on facebook - which took me a while as I have never blocked anyone before!
I phoned my mum to tell her what had been happening and she said she already knew as my aunt had phoned or texted her to tell her how rude my cousin had been towards me.
Anyway to cut a long story short, I am keeping Cinderella so as not to have wasted 2 years of stitching time. My mum wanted to send my aunt the money back herself as she was so disgusted with my cousin's rudeness and attitude but as far as I was concerned it was given to me and so up to me to return. So a cheque has been written and returned to my aunt along with the magazine so that either she can get someone else to stitch it or she can do whatever she likes with it!
I had thoroughly enjoyed stitching this design and although it would have been hard to see her go, I was prepared for it and happy to send her on to her new home, just not like this. Cinders is currently on my WIP shelf, where I am avoiding looking at her for the time being. There is a huge part of me that feels like a failure and that I should have just sent her as she was and let them do what they wanted with her. I do think that had I done that though, there would have been little/no chance of her ever getting finished.
My plan is to leave her for a few weeks and to see if any more is said by my aunt or cousin and then finish stitching her for my Rachael instead...not as a birth sampler though!
Please feel free to comment/vent/rant over the outcome if you would like to, either comments or via email.